Don't judge a book by its age?

Last year I was asked to be the teacher for the teen class at my church beginning 2013. I was a little hesitant at first since everyone always gives these kids a bad rep, but I decided I'd do it.

Being a teacher is a big role. As a teacher you have the responsibility of opening your students' minds to new ideas, aiding in their spiritual journey, and also being a friend to them. As I thought about all the responsibilities I had agreed to take on, my insecurities rose. The comments I received did not help. 

"Good luck. They don't listen to anyone." "They're so disrespectful." "They don't want to learn about the Bible." You get the idea..

I prayed and prayed. God gave me the strength to keep from resigning before the year even started. I decided to change everything about how their class was done, I added new things, changed the studies that we do.. For the first two weeks everything was going well. The kids seemed to enjoy the activities and I even had volunteers to read scripture!

That was, of course, until church let out that second week. A mother was questioning what we were doing in the class, and the fact that we changed the bible studies. She confronted me in a hostile way, and I can honestly say God was with me because I handled it very well and she walked away. 

What I wasn't expecting was this... She went to an elder and complained about my changes in a way that made it seem like I was teaching the kids bad things. They had a talk with me. I explained everything to them and gave reasons for my changes. Of course, they were surprised at everything I said because they were thinking different from what they'd heard before.

So why the title?

Last week my class learned about their importance and worth- without age restrictions. The majority of them are 13-16. It's a very difficult age to be a Christian, and they need to know that they matter, that they aren't all rebellious, they aren't all bad, and that they are all part of God's kingdom. 

This message really stuck to me as I am only 22, and get judged the same way they do a lot of the time. It's really hard sometimes to stay in church, to do the right thing, to be a good example when you're surrounded by older people who talk down on you without knowing your heart or relationship with God.

“Command and teach these things. Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity.” 1 Timothy 4:11,12

Reading this verse literally lifts me up every time I feel attacked by anyone at church. It's a great reminder of who I am, what I am here to do, and who I am doing it for. If you are young, don't let anyone's comments get to you- be an example. And, don't forget that while you're living your life, there will always be someone younger watching your every move.

Who am I?

Hello everyone! My name is Elizabeth Cabriales. I am a wife to an amazing husband and a mommy to a gorgeous baby girl. It is by Christ alone that I have become who I am today, and because of his death on the cross I am the daughter of the most powerful King in the universe.

Growing up, church was always an important part of my life. My parents were born in Mexico so we always went to hispanic churches. As we all know, the two cultures are completely opposite from each other and many times my views clashed with those of my parents and church members. It's one of the biggest challenges of being raised in a country your parents weren't raised in. My parents did a good job though.

When I met my husband he wasn't Christian. I had the privilege and responsibility of bringing him to my Father's feet. It was a struggle, but he soon decided to dedicate his life to our God through his baptism. It was one of the happiest days of my life. We aren't perfect people. We don't have the perfect marriage. We just love God, love each other, and love our baby girl.

Marriage is hard work. I know that God can salvage any marriage- no matter the conditions, the pain, the scars. But we have to put in our part too. Yes, we can pray all we want for an amazing marriage. Honestly, though, if we don't actually DO anything, we won't have the marriage we're praying to have. It was this realization that drove me to find resources to help me be a better wife while also helping me be a better daughter of God.

So this is it. This is my journey.